
You may be familiar with this bumper sticker. It’s the idea that no matter our religious beliefs, we are to live with one another and not impose on each other’s beliefs. It’s the idea that if we each just stick to our own and accept each other, there will be peace. I’ll admit, this sounds great. The problem is that while this is the world’s solution to peace and love, is not true love or peace.
Most of the world denounces Christianity because we say there is one way to God. Right now there are many religious lines being crossed and many are crying out that a loving God would not make only one way to get to Him- that’s too restrictive, that’s too limited. Thus the idea has emerged and is very popular now that no matter the religion you are in, you can get to God.
Reflecting on my past and the place I am in now, I’m learning that this is so contrary to what the true cry of the human heart is. God’s commandments, or what I like to call boundaries, are not restrictive, they are the loving guidelines given from a Father who knows what is truly good for His children. God’s insistence that there be only one way to get to Him is not single-mindedness, it equals the playing field and allows for anyone to come to Him no matter who or where they are. Like any father who has a house with a door to enter in to his house, God has a home- it’s His tabernacle as seen in Revelation 4, and the one way to be there in His presence is through His door- Jesus. And like any good father who has an inheritance to give to his son, the father will train and bring his child up in the right way so that he will be able to rightly steward and enjoy his inheritance once he is of age to receive it. We too, as believers in Jesus, have a great inheritance, but we are being trained in His ways that we may receive it in fullness when the time comes (1 Peter 1). The older I get, the more I realize that I love God’s commandments, because as I walk in them, I am more free, have more joy and peace! The world screams that we want our own way to be free and to choose whatever way they want to get to God, but that is not an option unfortunately, and it’s because God is a God of love that this is so.
God’s commands are not restrictive, they are liberating:
God, as our Creator, knows how He made us and how we are to live in light of the way He made us. If we made a pitcher to use for watering, and yet the pitcher wanted to be nothing but a cereal bowl, would that not be ridiculous? The pitcher was made to hold water and water plants, not be a wide open vessel to hold cereal that is easy to eat out of. That is a silly example, but the analogy has some truth in it. God created us to be in relationship with Him and to have a tender heart that loves and worships Him and others. His commandments, as seen in Exodus 20 and Matthew 5-7 reveal the boundary lines He has given our lives. His ways bring forth life, and His desire is that we have abundant life (John 10). As we live in the understanding that God created us, He sent His Son to cover our sins, and now we are to live our lives in agreement with Him, this is what gives us true freedom and joy. The world says that life is found when we have freedom to choose whatever we feel is best for us. But how can this be true? Would a good earthly father allow his child to do whatever he wants, even at a young age, never disciplining or correcting him? Would a good, loving parent, allow their child to stay up all hours of the night, do drugs, look at pornography, beat and bully his friends? Is that what love looks like to us? Unfortunately, many in our society have grown up in these circumstances. I did not, but because of my own rebellion, I incurred a lot of unnecessary suffering by not heeding the boundary lines my parents gave me.
My parents raised me to understand certain things were wrong and right- drinking was wrong, any pre-marital contact of the opposite sex was wrong. In my disobedience, I rebelled and did not listen to how they raised me. My assumption is that most of us have had a similar experience with some of the things our parents tried to instill in us and yet we turned away, wanting to make our own way and do our own thing. The cost I incurred from not listening to my parents was years of dating and going to parties that did not benefit me in any way. I definitely did not go crazy, but some have. Even what I did do though, brought much pain and shame into my life. Had I carefully heeded my parents at a young age, I would have not experienced much of the self-inflicted suffering from my own decisions that I wanted to do because I was “independent.” My parents, as loving, good parents, were not putting restrictions on me to control me, they were doing it to train me in what is good for me. I see now that what they were doing was good for me- showing me one way to live, in order to help me, not hurt me. My earthly parents are men just like me, and yet they still wanted to help protect me by showing me a good way to live. If I were going to go off a cliff and destroy myself, I would think that my parents would scream at me and push me away from the cliff to keep me from going over. I would get hurt in the process, but they would save my life. Isn’t that what love does? No matter how much it will hurt the other for a moment, love will save another’s life if destruction is seen?
God has revealed Himself as a Father, and as such, He does the exact same thing to us. Our sin brings forth death in our life- the wages of our sinful actions and thoughts produces death in us. And a lifestyle of living in sin results in the eternal death of hell. His commandments are our guard to teach us what not to do! It’s like He’s telling us what will burn us if we touch it. There is so much pain in our world today, and it is manifested in people’s addictions to food, video games, drugs, sex, pornography, shopping- its all a result of having a need in our heart that we are filling with a temporary solution. That is not what God has destined or desired for us. He wants us to have freedom, and He wants us to live in the ways He created us to live in. This takes breaking agreement with the world that says His commands are restrictive, and choosing to obey them, no matter how bad it hurts.
Psalm 2:1-2 reveals that humanity would be at a place of “casting off restraint” at the end of the age. The nations will be raging against God and against His Anointed, or His Son. They cast off the “restraints,” or the boundaries that God has placed upon them. This is seen as the nations refuse Jesus as God’s Son as the way of salvation, and especially in our own nation as the definition of marriage is sought to be redefined and the value of life from conception to death is refuted. It’s God who first revealed what marriage is between one man and one woman (Genesis2, Matthew 19), and it’s also God who makes life in the womb (Psalm 139). In our own dullness and desire for our own way, our nation and the nations of the earth have cast these restraints as we believe they are too restrictive. As our Creator however, He knows what and how we were made.
One way is good!
He is an Everlasting Father (Isaiah 9), meaning that He always existed and will always exist. He is limitless, eternal, all powerful and all knowing. He is holy, and He is true. Yet we are quite the opposite and have been separated from Him. He has resolved this predicament however- first revealing what His commands are, and then giving us His Son as a sacrifice to cover our sins and forgive us, all the while giving us His Spirit to empower us to walk in agreement with His ways.
The testimony of Scripture is that all humans have gone their own way against God (Isaiah 53:6). We all have the disobedience in us that goes against His ways. Again, how many of us have rebelled against our earthly fathers? How much more have we rebelled against the perfect, holy God whom we have not seen! We are in desperate need of a new heart and a new spirit, which is given to us through the repentance of our sins and believing that Jesus is God who came and died and reaped the wages of our sin- death. He died under God’s wrath so we would not have to. God, as a good Father, has told us how to live, yet He also saw that we were not capable of living in His ways. So, what did He do? He allowed His Son to walk on the earth without sin, and after allowing Him to die in our place, gave us His Spirit so that we have a new spirit in us that actually wants to be obedient. Apart from God’s Spirit in us, no man wants to follow God.
In other religions, there is always some sort of penance, a list of prayers one must pray, a pilgrimage one must take, in order to be saved. But even in these religions, most do not have a solution for sin. Many still do not even know if they are saved! They are practicing their religion, hoping that if they do enough of their religion now they will be saved. But God has made one way for all men to not only be forgiven assuredly of their sins, and given a new heart to begin to be His child and walk in His ways so that they can receive an inheritance. Our assurance is that Jesus did die, that He did rise again, and when we confess, we are filled with His Spirit and receive an internal witness of our salvation.
He has made a covering for us by the blood of Jesus, and then invites us to walk according to His ways. He disciplines us and reveals to us how we are to live. As our Father who made our hearts, He knows what is best for us. It’s His love that gives us boundaries, and freedom comes when we come under His covering and in His house, listening to Him to guide us in our life.
We are to love, honor, and respect all persons. Jesus says to pray for all men (1 Timothy 2:1-2) and to love our enemies (Matthew 5:43-45). But we have to ask the question, does love speak the truth or just allow another to continue in life in their current situation even when there are eternal consequences for their choices? It’s not just that through Jesus we are saved from an eternal death in hell, we are being trained to be like Him and to receive an inheritance in His kingdom (1 Peter 1). That is glorious, and He allows for any man to partake in this kingdom.
My heart is not to denounce other people, prove them wrong, or argue, but I do believe the Lord has allowed me to see that in His love He really does have an amazing future in the next age for those who believe in His Son and through their life chose daily to live for Him. I also believe that for those who do not there is an eternal damnation in hell. He is a Father, and He not only is limitless in His mercy, but He states that He will not acquit the guilty (Exodus 33). We only receive mercy through one way, through His Son. There is no other recompense for sin. And while all the other religions in the world, and even parts of Christianity these days, want humanity to believe this is so, it completely goes against God’s self revelation in His word. He is a loving Father, He has made a way, a perfect way. His ways are good, His commandments bring true freedom and peace.
In this hour our nation is choosing ideas that are quite contrary to this. My burden is that we all wrestle with what true love is. God has promised great deception to those who do not receive a love for the truth (2 Thessalonians 2). We thus must ask God for a love for truth, labor in His word and prayer, and continue to be a voice of what God has revealed about Himself even when the world is contrary to this. The world does not like that God has made one way, but that is His love and mercy, and it is what He has stated in His word. Our minds and hearts must be renewed to understand this, because the voice that says there are many paths to God is very strong in the earth right now. If there is any place in our hearts that is tugged by thinking that may be true, we need merely to go to our Father in repentance and have Him show us the truth. Coexisting and allowing everyone to live in their own ways sounds nice, but the Father has made one recompense for sins- His Son. He has made one way to love- obeying His commands (John 15). This is what a good father does, and the limitless God who created us has done the same thing.
Here are some amazing quotes from Spirit of Truth by Art Katz- I highly recommend reading it, and you can download it for free online.
“Everyone who has driven a car has had the experience of approaching an intersection, slowing down, glancing both ways, and then choosing either to stop or to slowly slide through. The sign says “full stop,” but…that is only a guide, a warning; it does not really mean “full stop.” After all, stopping is so inconvenient, so time-consuming and wasteful of gas and brake linings. It requires going against the momentum of a vehicle already in motion, of a set of well-practiced attitudes and choices in favor of self-assurance, ease and convenience. Therefore, we do not stop. We make truth relative to our own judgment, our own needs, and our own subjectivity…As long as it is convenient and serves our interests, truth, like a stop sign, is obeyed ” page 26
“The world celebrates tolerance as a cardinal virtue and is prepared to tolerate everything 3⁄4 except absolute values and absolute truth. To the wisdom and enlightenment of the world, nothing is more offensive than what it calls “dogmatism.” However, beneath the world’s professed concern for the complexity of circumstances, there lies a rejection of any and all absolutes. In its zeal against “dogmatism,” the world exalts toleration above righteousness, and degrades truth thereby.” page 27
“The world’s wisdom is always trying to undo God’s eternal, absolute distinctions, always trying to blur the boundary between truth and lies, always seeking to create a gray haze in which to redefine and justify what we desire to be and to do. Relativism is appealing because, unlike truth, it is so convenient!” page 27
“The relief of loneliness justifies adultery; the relief of stress and inconvenience justifies abortion; the perfecting of the race justifies genocide. The world is simply fulfilling its spiritual nature when it denies absolute truth.” page 27
May this encourage your faith in our loving heavenly Father. Blessings,
JuliAnn